The struggling teen. What is your teenager struggling with? Today’s teens struggle with far more than the teens of previous generations. Our world is changing speedily in technology and communication style and information. There are pressures from parents, peers, teachers, friends. Expectations are hard to discern and harder to meet. So how does this affect the self-image and emotional stability of our teens?
My heart breaks for kids these days. These are very real feelings and needs. Often in the whirl of family life parents are not even aware of what their children are facing. Since the world is changing so fast, the contrast with the world in which we were raised is sharper than ever, and old coping tools seem inadequate. “Concentrate.” “Get up earlier.” “Go to bed earlier.” “Don’t worry what others say.” “You’ll be OK.” “Just get through this year.” “Study hard so you get into a good college.”
When these old platitudes miss the mark, many teens seek out other ways to satisfy their needs, like drugs and alcohol, or violence, or gang communities or self-destructive habits.
A better way to address the needs of the struggling teen in your life is found in the Bible. But where? (more…)